Once you have found somebody who has agreed to go out on a first date with you, you may find yourself under a lot of pressure in planning that first date.
Planning a first date can be very stressful because you want everything to go without a hitch in order that you can perhaps set yourself up for a second date.
Ideally, the first date offers a couple the chance to get to know each other better in a casual atmosphere that does not put too much pressure on either of them to keep up a constant stream of small talk. If you have any reservations about the conversation aspect of a first date, you can always plan a date that focuses more on an activity than on conversation.
This type of date which focuses on a fun filled activity may be beneficial in leading to a second date. First dates do not have to be stressful and there are many activities that are perfect for whatever type of date you are looking to have.
First Date Ideas
Dinner Theater - The atmosphere in a dinner theater is usually cozy and romantic while at the same time providing the perfect blend of conversation and entertainment. While a traditional dinner date can lead to awkward pauses in the conversation and the stress of juggling dinner and conversation, a dinner theater removes that problem because the meal is usually served during the performance. ]
Consequently, you will be able to eat your meal without having to worry about small talk. During the intervals you can get to know each other and if you have trouble with a conversation starter you can always fall back on talking about the performance.
Museums or Art Galleries - The laid back atmosphere of a museum or art gallery removes the normal pressures of first dates as there is so much to see and do that you will not be lacking things to talk about. You can spend a few hours wandering through the exhibits and really get to know your date. Be sure to ask questions about what your date likes or does not like about the exhibits. Being inquisitive will give you a better understanding of your date’s personality.
Theme Parks - Everybody loves the chance to relive their childhood again and the opportunity to spend a day on thrill rides is a great way to spend a first date. The long queues will give you plenty of time to talk and get to know each other and you may find that every time the conversation starts to dry up, you have made it to the front of the queue and it is your turn to jump on board and enjoy the ride. The exhilaration of thrill rides may loosen inhibitions and bring a first date couple closer together.
Movie and Dinner - If you are nervous about conversation, you may want to try the traditional movie and dinner first date. The movie portion of the date takes the stress of conversation off of your shoulders and afterward at dinner you have an instant conversation starter. If you cannot think of anything to talk about, you can always ask her what she thought of the movie in order to start up a conversation. You may just find that after spending a couple of hours in a movie theater, you already feel a lot closer to your date and conversation will just flow naturally.
Coffee Shop - If conversation is not a problem for you and you are not concerned about keeping a conversation going, a great first date idea would be a coffee shop. The coffee shop environment is such that there is little else to do except talk to your date. This is a perfect scenario for the person who enjoys the art of conversation and is really looking forward to getting to know their date.
Fun Center or Funfair - A trip to a funfair that offers mini-golf and arcade games is another fun first date idea. Engaging in a game of miniature golf or squaring off by playing some video games is a fun and competitive way to spend your first date. The activities are lighthearted and fun and introducing the element of competition really loosens people up so you and your date will probably have an easy time getting to know each other.
The key to a successful first date is to plan activities that are fun and entertaining without placing too much pressure on either party. Finding relaxing ways to get to know your date will ensure that your first date is a no stress event that will quite possibly lead to a second date.
A completely no stress date is one that both parties enjoy and one that allows the couple to engage in a balance of fun and meaningful conversation without putting too much emphasis on any one aspect of the date.
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