Wednesday 4 March 2009

How to Act on a First Date


First dates can be intimidating but by following a few simple tips on how to act on a first date, you will not only survive that first meet but also guarantee yourself a second date. All it takes is some careful planning, remaining flexible, being tidy, polite and courteous, being relaxed and honest, being committed to having a good time and sharing about you without monopolizing the conversation.


Careful planning will help you to survive your first date and may lay the groundwork for a second date. Make sure you have planned the date ahead of time and arranged it so that it runs smoothly. On a first date, it is best not to leave anything to chance or to rely on making on the spot decisions about what to do next because doing so can create uncomfortable moments.

Do not just plan what you would like to do on the date but also map out the best routes to arrive at your destinations and pre-arrange any necessary reservations so you do not wind up not being able to find your destination or waiting a long time for an activity.

While careful preparation before the date will ensure that everything runs smoothly and will eliminate any unnecessary tension on the date, you may still need to remain flexible. Regardless of your best efforts, you may suffer a hitch in your plans and being flexible and willing to adapt to the situation will prevent you and your date from becoming frustrated. Your date will be impressed that you went to so much trouble in planning the date and will be flattered by your efforts.

Key characteristics for surviving a first date include tidiness, politeness and courteousness. While these characteristics are important in any dating situation they are particularly important on a first date. This is your opportunity to make a first impression that your date will admire, so go all out in trying to impress him or her.

Put extra effort into your personal appearance and strive to remain polite and courteous at all times. Showing your date that you respect them by taking pride in your appearance and treating them with respect will help you to not only survive a first date but also guarantee a second one.

It is important to be relaxed and honest during your date. If you are tense or evasive, your date may not trust you and will not be comfortable or eager to go on a second date with you. If you try to be something you are not, your date will most likely see through your charade and will be put off by your dishonesty.

In addition, they most likely will not be interested in pursuing a second date. However, if you relax and are completely honest, your personality will shine through and impress your date enough to entice them to be interested in a second meet.

Committing to having a good time will help you to survive a first date and guarantee a second one. If you go into a first date with apprehensions or prejudices, you will find yourself not having a good time. It is extremely difficult to have a good time if you are not open to the experience.

On the other hand, if you are truly optimistic and are looking forward to the day, you and your date will most likely wind up having a great time together. Your optimism and attitude will be infectious and will ensure that you both have a great time on the first date and are eager for a second.

Finally truly being interested in sharing details of your personal life and learning more about your date will ensure that you survive a first date. If you do not open up to your date and show them who you really are, they will most likely not be interested in a second date with your or even sharing much about themselves on the first date. If you are not afraid to share personal information about yourself and are open to listening to what your date has to say, you will have a very successful first date.

Many singles find themselves nervous and apprehensive on a first date because they worry about how they will get through the date and whether or not this first date will lead to future dates. It is okay to be nervous about a first date but following the advice in this article can enable you to not only survive a first date but also guarantee yourself a second one.


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2 comments:

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